Thursday, August 18, 2016

Mannerly Advice

This list of manners was sent to me by my grandma, Joane Gallant. I hope it is of help to you all!


Manners:

1. If a man knows that it is etiquette to remain standing until you are seated, be sure to sit promptly as to not leave him standing too long.

2. No rude or shocking language, especially at the table. Your language is a representation of your mind and heart.


3. Don’t talk with your mouth full. I don’t need to explain this one.


4. She dresses tastefully: A lady dresses appropriately for the occasion.


5. Phone calls: When in doubt, a good rule of thumb is not to make phone calls before 9 am or after 9 pm.


6. She is gracious: She never just says, “hello” when being introduced to someone. She offers a kind greeting like, “it’s a pleasure to meet you” or “how are you this evening?”


7. She turns her phone on silent and puts it away for meals, meetings and church.


8. She says, “yes, please” or “no, thank you.” She does not say, “yep” or “nope.”


9. She gives compliments with sincerity and only when she means it. She does not say things just to say them. Insincerity is easier to read than we think.


10. A lady offers to help someone in need. Being a lady starts with how you treat yourself and others. She offers her seat to the elderly, disabled or a parent with small children.


11. She RSVPs promptly, reads an invitation thoroughly and does not ask for exceptions. She always promptly sends a detailed thank you note to anyone who has shown her hospitality.


12. She never arrives empty handed. Bringing a small hostess gift shows your appreciation for the preparation your host has done.


13. Her word is her bond. A lady warrants a respectable reputation purely by the consistency of her word. She always keeps her promises.