Thursday, August 18, 2016

Mannerly Advice

This list of manners was sent to me by my grandma, Joane Gallant. I hope it is of help to you all!


Manners:

1. If a man knows that it is etiquette to remain standing until you are seated, be sure to sit promptly as to not leave him standing too long.

2. No rude or shocking language, especially at the table. Your language is a representation of your mind and heart.


3. Don’t talk with your mouth full. I don’t need to explain this one.


4. She dresses tastefully: A lady dresses appropriately for the occasion.


5. Phone calls: When in doubt, a good rule of thumb is not to make phone calls before 9 am or after 9 pm.


6. She is gracious: She never just says, “hello” when being introduced to someone. She offers a kind greeting like, “it’s a pleasure to meet you” or “how are you this evening?”


7. She turns her phone on silent and puts it away for meals, meetings and church.


8. She says, “yes, please” or “no, thank you.” She does not say, “yep” or “nope.”


9. She gives compliments with sincerity and only when she means it. She does not say things just to say them. Insincerity is easier to read than we think.


10. A lady offers to help someone in need. Being a lady starts with how you treat yourself and others. She offers her seat to the elderly, disabled or a parent with small children.


11. She RSVPs promptly, reads an invitation thoroughly and does not ask for exceptions. She always promptly sends a detailed thank you note to anyone who has shown her hospitality.


12. She never arrives empty handed. Bringing a small hostess gift shows your appreciation for the preparation your host has done.


13. Her word is her bond. A lady warrants a respectable reputation purely by the consistency of her word. She always keeps her promises.

Sunday, February 14, 2016

The Prayer of Sir Francis Drake

Hello Sisters! I pray you're all doing well this fine Sunday night! We had an amazing service today and I really got a HUGE blessing from it! I haven't been on this blog in forever so I thought I'd type up a post... 
I recently listened to an audio narration of the book "Dear Kate" and was very much intrigued by the story... but that's not what I want to write about... In the story Kate quotes a lot from this poem and she really broke it down to where I really thought about each part. It's amazing! I loved it so much I thought I'd share it.

Disturb us, Lord, when
We are too well pleased with ourselves,
When our dreams have come true
Because we have dreamed too little,
When we arrived safely
Because we sailed too close to the shore.
Disturb us, Lord, when
With the abundance of things we possess
We have lost our thirst
For the waters of life;
Having fallen in love with life,
We have ceased to dream of eternity
And in our efforts to build a new earth,
We have allowed our vision
Of the new Heaven to dim.
Disturb us, Lord, to dare more boldly,
To venture on wider seas
Where storms will show your mastery;
Where losing sight of land,
We shall find the stars.
We ask You to push back
The horizons of our hopes;
And to push into the future
In strength, courage, hope, and love.
~Sir Francis Drake