Showing posts with label Helpful Hints and Tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Helpful Hints and Tips. Show all posts

Thursday, August 18, 2016

Mannerly Advice

This list of manners was sent to me by my grandma, Joane Gallant. I hope it is of help to you all!


Manners:

1. If a man knows that it is etiquette to remain standing until you are seated, be sure to sit promptly as to not leave him standing too long.

2. No rude or shocking language, especially at the table. Your language is a representation of your mind and heart.


3. Don’t talk with your mouth full. I don’t need to explain this one.


4. She dresses tastefully: A lady dresses appropriately for the occasion.


5. Phone calls: When in doubt, a good rule of thumb is not to make phone calls before 9 am or after 9 pm.


6. She is gracious: She never just says, “hello” when being introduced to someone. She offers a kind greeting like, “it’s a pleasure to meet you” or “how are you this evening?”


7. She turns her phone on silent and puts it away for meals, meetings and church.


8. She says, “yes, please” or “no, thank you.” She does not say, “yep” or “nope.”


9. She gives compliments with sincerity and only when she means it. She does not say things just to say them. Insincerity is easier to read than we think.


10. A lady offers to help someone in need. Being a lady starts with how you treat yourself and others. She offers her seat to the elderly, disabled or a parent with small children.


11. She RSVPs promptly, reads an invitation thoroughly and does not ask for exceptions. She always promptly sends a detailed thank you note to anyone who has shown her hospitality.


12. She never arrives empty handed. Bringing a small hostess gift shows your appreciation for the preparation your host has done.


13. Her word is her bond. A lady warrants a respectable reputation purely by the consistency of her word. She always keeps her promises.

Friday, April 25, 2014

Tips for Girls Who Like to be Helpful

Single girls here are some thoughts from me to you on what to do with yourself when you go visit someone else’s house.

1. Always ask if there’s anything that you can do.
2. If you see a job that needs done, jump in and do it. Maybe the trash needs emptied or food was dropped on the floor and you can pick or sweep it up.
3. Look for jobs to do, don’t wait to be asked. This is sort of a repeat of #2 but what I’m meaning by this is to think ahead to what needs to be accomplished in order to serve a meal. From my own experience, I have seen girls that seem willing to help but sometimes there will be a job right there in front of them that could be done but they fail to recognize it.
4. If you are given a job, stick with it to the end. Be dependable. Once the hostess has passed the job to you, she doesn't want to have to think about it any longer.
Let me say I don’t put or expect all my guests to work when they come for dinner but if I have a large crowd, it always nice to have some extra hands.
 
 
.....pillows are nice for people to bring too because their is always a shortage of those too no matter how many extra one seems to have.

This was originally posted at Sister Elisabeth's site and thought I'd share it!